In this episode, May sits down with dating coach and author Nick Notas, who went from socially anxious and awkward with women to helping introverted men build confidence, flirt naturally, and connect authentically. They break down what flirting really looks like, what women respond to, why emotional self-awareness is attractive, and the subtle mistakes that cause men to lose women. Packed with practical insights and one simple dating hack most menoverlook, this conversation cuts through dating noise and gets real about modern attraction.

0:00 Introduction to Nick Notas, started off nerdy andhelping nerdy guys today

3:49 Social anxious, jealous, needy

4:28 How do men flirt or show interest

6:39 How do you teach introverted men to flirt?

9:09 Flirting is easier than being a lawyer, doctor, engineer!

11:23 Do men want strong women?

15:20 Women like him to have a therapist or a relationshipcoach?

18:00 What do men like to hear about what women are doing

19:57 Signal to women you’re proactive

21:00 How can men express his feelings?

 24:30 What are men’sinsecurities?

25:35 Why do men lose women?

 29:50 Dating hack:call her, not text her to death!

31:20 How do successful men let her know he’s successfulwithout sounding braggy

Nick is a dating andrelationship coach. For 18 years, he's helped thousands ofsmart men in 37 countries build genuine confidence andattract meaningful connections.

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You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in theircareers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle tofind meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screenthe women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, theymeet the right woman and fall in love.

May Bugenhagen is a professional matchmaker, dating coach, and founder of TwoAsian Matchmakers, a boutique agency helping successful menfind meaningful relationships with Asian partners since 2009.

Known for her warm, curious nature and love of love, May blends intuitionwith strategy to guide high-achieving singles toward genuine connection. Amember of the Matchmakers Alliance and GlobalLove Institute, she’s a respected voice in the industry and amentor to rising matchmakers.

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